viernes, 13 de diciembre de 2013

Suit and tie fetish.


Translated from Spanish into English. **UPDATED November 2, 2014**

SUIT AND TIE FETISHISM

DEFINITION:

Suit and tie fetish describes a fetishistic attraction towards men who wear suits and ties or men who get aroused when they themselves dress in a suit and tie.


Generally, the fetish and sexual arousal first appears in adolescence. But many men report having arousal from seeing other males in a suit and necktie (or from wearing one themselves) from the age of 12.

INTRODUCTION:


Some men get aroused by the act of putting on a suit and tie; this can lead to the typical physical manifestations of arousal, including accelerated heart rate and involuntary erections.

Usually starts subtly as the garments are put on one by one and then it reaches its apex as the top button of a TIGHT shirt collar is buttoned up and a tie is tied around the neck.


This usually begins in adolescence where the boy puts on a suit infrequently, but when he enters the business world and is required to dress formally most days of the week it can escalate from a mild annoyance to a real problem when each morning to dress for work routine is interrupted by a need to release sexual tension.


This can be humiliating and very difficult for man heterosexually identified to deal with,
as though he is sexually attracted to women, he constantly finds himself aroused by his own clothing which is in fact a clear symbol of male power and an evident sexual attractiveness to himself and to others.

Needless to say, heterosexual men with this fetish do not find it easy to share even with their closest friends for fear of being labeled homosexual.


Sexual stimuli by wearing a suit and tie often come from the correct wear of a tie, that is, with the top button of the shirt fastened, and also from seeing oneself smart and attractive to himself and to others; this can be classified within the spectrum narcissistic.

Narcissism is sexual arousal towards oneself. Narcissism usually occurs while it is worn a particular garment that stimulates the senses and provokes sexual arousal, but while it is not worn, sexual arousal towards oneself does not exist.

Treatment for suit and tie fetish is that the loved object, i.e. the suit and tie, lose all their erotic power.

A tie is usually the main reason why men feel sexual arousal by wearing suits and ties or seeing other men dressed in suits and ties.


FETISHISM FOR WEARING A SUIT AND TIE OR SEEING OTHER MEN DRESSED IN SUITS AND TIES.

Men who get temporarily aroused by wearing a suit and tie.


Aside from the following scenarios which can be classified within the boundaries of typical sexual fetishism, the fact that men simply look good when they are dressed in suits and ties, can make a person, who doesn’t have this fetish, temporarily get aroused by seeing a man dressed in a suit and tie.


People when they realize that a friend or coworker, who usually does not wear a suit and tie, suddenly appears at an event or at work, dressed in a suit and tie, very likely do not have this fetish, since the arousal is fleeting and transient, and only happens in the time it was used.

Men who do not get aroused by wearing a suit and tie.

There are men who wear suits and ties and they do not feel any sexual arousal, this is because most men wear a loosened tie with the top button of the shirt unfastened or because when they fasten the shirt collar they do not feel that it tighten them the neck.

For this reason, they do not get aroused by seeing other men dressed in suits and ties. More information below:

Men who do not get aroused by seeing other men dressed in suits and ties.

Some men do not feel any sexual arousal by seeing other men wearing suits and ties because do not feel sexual arousal in themselves when they wear suits and ties.

This is because only we look for in another male that which arouses us about ourselves.

For example, if we get aroused by wearing a suit and tie, we will get aroused by seeing other men dressed in suits and ties.

Conversely, if we do not get aroused by wearing a suit and tie, we will not get aroused by seeing other men dressed in suits and ties.

So we say that there are men who wear suits and ties and do not feel sexual arousal towards other men dressed in suits and ties, because when they themselves dress in suits and ties, they do not get aroused by wearing suits and ties. Most of these men wear a loosened tie with the top button of the shirt unfastened OR wear a shirt collar larger and they do not feel that it tighten them the neck.

That said there are also men who do not feel any sexual arousal by seeing other men wearing suits and ties because they have never had by wearing suits and ties. As they have never experienced how it feels by wearing a suit and tie, they have never felt anything for the men dressed in suits and ties.

Origin of sexual arousal by wearing a suit and tie.
                                                               
The neck is an erogenous zone. When this erogenous zone is stimulated by an object, for example, a shirt collar fastened provokes sexual arousal and unwanted erections in the person who wears it.

The neck is stimulated by a TIGHT collar and by the pressure of the collar on the neck of the person, that is, when someone fastens the top button of his tight shirt collar and ties his tie around the collar.

Then the neck is as imprisoned by the shirt collar and the tie, with a consequent rubbing and friction that the shirt collar exerts on the neck of the person, this will lead to unwanted erections, and sexual arousal.

Sexual arousal occurs provided that the neck of the person is affected by a narrow collar.

It is normal for the man who must wear a tie properly for work has throughout the day unwanted erections and feels sexual arousal for his person and for other men dressed in suits and ties.

In summary:


The main reason why a man gets aroused by wearing a suit and tie is because he fastens the top button of his TIGHT collar shirt and wears a too tight tie around the neck.

It is known that when the neck is too tight by the shirt collar, the neck is stimulated by the pressure that exerts the shirt collar on the neck of the person, causing reactions such as sexual arousal and unwanted erections.

The tighter is the collar, the greater is sexual arousal.

As evidence of sexual arousal is pre-ejaculate and unwanted erections that occur when the top button of the shirt is fastened and the tie is adjusted.

Repeatedly is the feeling that the collar is too tight which makes the man, who wears a tie, feels sexual arousal. If the person did not feel that his neck is too tight by the collar, sexual arousal would cease.

Treatment for suit and tie fetish, fetishism by wearing a suit and tie and by seeing other men dressed in suits and ties:


If the person does not want to be aroused by wearing a tie, he must wear it without buttoning the top button of his shirt and wearing the tie loosened.


OR

Wearing a shirt collar size larger. For example, if I am size 15, and this aroused me a lot, I must wear a shirt size 15 1/2. Thus, the wearer of the tie will not feel any sexual arousal.


When the person does not feel sexual arousal by wearing a tie, fetishism will be over.

For more details see: (Treatment for suit and tie fetishism)

http://treatmentsuitandtiefetish.blogspot.mx/  
Men who get aroused by seeing other men in suits and ties.

Most active members of the suit and tie fetish community are heterosexual men who become gay just because of feeling sexual arousal by wearing a suit and tie. 

There is a theory that says:

"What arouses on your own person; it will arouse you by seeing it in people of your same sex”

In this case, if you get aroused by wearing a suit and tie, you will get aroused by seeing other men wearing suits and ties. 

The necessity for wearing the best suit and tie.

When a male wears a suit and tie, he considers himself as a sexual attractiveness, so then, it is a necessity that he looks for obsessively to look better, to thereby, increase sexual stimulation and sexual arousal, and so achieve orgasm.

Therefore, we say that if a man gets aroused by wearing a suit and tie, he will get aroused by wearing the best business attire.

The same goes for those who consider themselves heterosexual:
If women arouse them, among all the women, they will look for the most beautiful woman.
 


Reasons why the man who gets aroused by wearing a suit and tie feels inferior to other men who wear suits and ties.

The sight of a man dressed for business is a very powerful and exciting image that can trigger feelings of inadequacy in the viewer and feed into typical sadist/ masochist scenarios with one sexual partner appearing to have the upper hand merely by virtue of outward appearance.

Conversely, in the role play this can also be used in a different scenario with a man in a suit and tie being forced into a humiliating situation by a subordinate or some other businessman.

Main reasons why males who wears suits and ties feel sexual arousal by other complementary accessories related to suits and ties:

When a male wears a suit and tie, his libido covers of sexual energy all his executive attire, which makes that dress shoes, cufflinks, executive socks, a vest, a jacket and everything else are sexually exciting.

Therefore, many men who wear a TIGHT shirt collar every day end up being fetishists for the accessories that belong to the business attire.

Possible persecutory delusions in men who wear suits and ties:

Few men who get aroused by wearing suits and ties feel that someone pursues them (persecutory delusions), they feel rare or are embarrassed by wearing a suit and tie in public, it is due to modesty inherent in human beings. This happens because modesty compels us to hide what is a source of sexual arousal for us and for the others.